Will He Come Back to Me?

Will He Come Back to me?

If I had a dollar for every single time I’ve been asked “Will my Ex come back to me?”  – I would be George and Amal’s neighbor on that Italian island, with enough left over to jet set to the Galapagos every time I needed a fix of wild nature!

Seriously y’all. Why do you keep bemoaning the situation between you and the ex? Why are you mooning over him and wanting him (or her) to come back to you? There was a perfectly good reason you broke it off and there’s an equally great reason for you to learn the joy of being single and unattached.

Now let me tell you the truth. I’ve been there a few times myself. Mostly I was the breaker-upper – because – attachment and trust issues. Sometimes though I was left staring into the broken shards of my imaginary perfect life with Mr. not-so-Perfect-but-I-was-going-to-make-him-so.  It hurt and it stung to be left and my Ego was really in a tizzy. I hated finding out that the person that I’d covered with my love and kisses was out and about town with one (or three) others, all the while promising me that we’d buy that adorable house on the corner together so we could raise kids and get old and gray together.

I have love in my heart for you when you ask this question, even while I’m internally groaning. I’m groaning because I see myself and so many of my friends when we were in that same position. I’m smiling because we all came out of it as better, more joyful people and empowered people who eventually found bliss on our own terms. Some of us with partners that are wildly more of a fit for us than the one we cried for and some of us without partners but the freedom and vision to dive into living our dreams on our own terms. We’re all so much more US as a result of letting that other one go.

When you put your hands in front of me and ask me if your ex is coming back I can only tell you what I see about YOU and how you are in relationships. I can clearly see where you’re stuck and I can give you specific details about how and why you get yourself entangled with people who are not a fit. This doesn’t mean that they are bad people. And it totally doesn’t mean that you need to Gumby yourself into someone you’re not in order to regain that person in your life.

What you’ve just experienced is the law of contrast. It shows you all the ways you’re attracting and buying into relationships that are not a fit for you for the long term. This doesn’t mean that the relationship was wasted time. (I know, I know, everyone else is getting married! They’re having kids! and you feel left behind.)  This is a great opportunity to ask yourself if you trust the Divine. Divine timing is always right. You can’t do this wrong! (what a relief, right?)  Just because you’re comparing yourself to someone else doesn’t mean that you’re behind or wrong or dealing with an evil curse. It simply means that you’re learning lessons on your own time.

Want to speed up that learning curve?

Look to your hands and take action on what you learn.

Too many people want a psychic to tell them, “Yes, he’s coming back. He’ll be there in 3 months,” so they can sit back and wait for life to happen to them. They are literally handing their power over – to the psychic and to the person for whom they’re longing. What the psychic doesn’t tell you is that when he comes back it’s just more of the same and you’ll sink another decade into trying to become someone you’re not in order to “keep” them – ending up miserable with three kids who don’t want to speak to either of you once they turn 18.

Instead of asking “Will he (or she) come back to me?” Ask, “How can I be the best possible version of myself in a loving and committed relationship?” or “What are my blind-spots when it comes to relationships and how can I take action to clear up those challenges?”  Then you’ll leave your reading with some seriously useful intel and you’ll have specific guidance on moving forward to a more joyful relationship future.

Empower yourself and use your hands to light your path to love.

Want a reading? Still two more left until my Sabbatical. Book here.

Breaking Through to Happy

Psychic Renewal

 

Behind the scenes I’ve been working on breaking through my cocoon. Spirit has made it clear that there’s more work for me to do and it’s not all related to hands. Spirit has been typically quiet on the specific details – teaching me to trust that all I have to do is show up and everything I want or need is already present. It’s a good lesson, although not an easy one to learn.

I’ve spent the past 2 months writing a book. The very rough draft is nearly done and I can’t wait to start the process of editing and submission to agents. I’ll update my subscribers on the details as we go along that route.

In the meantime, I have had plenty of time to be present in my life and my business. I haven’t been thinking and planning and pushing, I have just been sitting with it and acting on what seems to be fun and natural for me. (Imagine that – tossing out a business plan and simply going with what feels good!) I am much more happy this way. It may not be for everyone – but it works for me. See, I have super stiff thumbs and a high ranking print on one of my Saturn fingers. Imposing tons of rules and must dos was just overwhelming me. It was like putting a barbed wire fence, around a cement fence around an insulated and thickly protected building. In essence, I put myself in business jail and I felt like a prisoner.

Now I’ve got the freedom to go back to my roots, do what my gut tells me and can always call on my natural inclination to follow processes and useful procedures when necessary. (I’m never going to completely fly by the seat of my pants – just not in my hard-wiring.)

Simply being present has led me to some interesting changes, for instance I’ve:

  • Stopped obsessing over the scale and the fact that I couldn’t seem to lose weight.
  • Taken on a predominantly plant-based way of eating
  • Lost the urge to apologize to others for things that had nothing to do with me in the first place
  • Remembered that I can ask for what I need and take action to receive it
  • Received an influx of new clients that found me out of the blue
  • re- Connected deeply with some friends and family who I’d been missing
  • and really, so much more.

All of these things just happened – when I stopped trying to make anything happen.

How?
All I know is that I’ve committed this summer to being happy, no matter what. To really be present in the joy of the moment, even if the moment is full of traffic and seeming disappointments.

 

What’s coming?

I’ll be using Facebook Live a ton in the How To Read Hands Group to give free lessons on, you guessed it, How to Read Hands. I’m shutting down the palmistry readings in August but am offering Spirit Says readings for the foreseeable future. I’ll be writing so much more here about Spiritual and Psychic Life and how to fine-tune your own connection to Spirit – on your own terms. I sure hope you’ll subscribe to the newsletter and come back here and visit!

If there’s anything in particular you want to know or want to learn about – feel free to let me know in the comments.  Thanks for reading. I appreciate you.

Peace,
Peggie

 

Are you ready to Shine?

I’ve barely had time to breathe since December and now I can tell you all about it.

I took a contract full-time position working for TurboTax for tax season and it’s been a wild ride. (more about all the things I learned in the past 5 months later).

I took the contract because I knew it was time for a change. I’d been feeling a bit “meh” about my work as a marketing coach for mystics. Don’t get me wrong, I loved my clients and loved watching them succeed but something felt off and I couldn’t put my finger on it.  Now I know that it was just the Universe’s way of reminding me to hone in on my priorities and passions. I needed to get into alignment with myself.

Too much navel-gazing only begets more ennui and navel-gazing for me. I’m one of those people who needs to be DOING in order to figure out what it means to be BEING. Not everyone is this way, but with my stiff, strong thumbs and over-active Jupiter mounts and stars I know that moving and doing is a way for me to sort things out. Being on the go forces me to laser focus on my priorities and to clarify what matters most.

Palmistry readings help you build your business
Palmistry readings for clarity and purpose

It wasn’t long into my contract that I realized I didn’t miss the doing of marketing coaching.  In fact, I felt relieved that I could make the same amount of money working to empower our agents and contributing to an awesome team that I had made coaching. It was easy to do my work and I felt great getting paid for it!

I made a clear distinction — I love to HELP people with their marketing but even more so I love to groom people to rise to their best and find their message to put into the world. However, I felt pretty crappy trying to put together a one-size-fits-all system of marketing (which is necessary in order to scale and make a decent living) when I’m particularly jazzed about the ways we’re all so different and amazing. Just because I know a lot about marketing and sales (remember I did it in my corporate career for more than 15 years) doesn’t mean that my way of marketing is the only way. It certainly doesn’t mean that it will always work for you…primarily because you and I have very different fingerprint patterns, hand prints, DNA and astrological charts. So basically, it was a drag marketing myself as a marketing coach and I was starting to think I didn’t want to get paid to do it anymore. Which is when the TurboTax gig pretty much fell into my lap (still can’t figure out how they found me) and I said yes to the opportunity that the Universe was handing me on a silver platter.

Without that marketing stuff in the way, I realized that I missed reading hands. More than I thought I would. I still had the feeling that there was something else that will be added to the mix in my toolbox for helping people, but I missed looking at fingerprints and hands and lines and sharing that wisdom with people who are ready to hear it. Luckily I’ve had a number of colleagues hit me up for readings in our off hours and they’ve kept my schedule pretty full. Each of those readings was a blast and the people getting the readings were more than delighted with what they learned about themselves!

I’ve been doing readings all along while working full-time. Now that tax season is almost over – (can I get a Hallelujah and an Amen?!) I’ll be conducting 10 readings a month between my travels this summer.  They’ll be in person here in Tucson or by phone or Skype if you’re not lucky enough to live here 🙂 And if I can squeeze it in when I’m on the East Coast I’ll be happy to do your reading there too. (If you want to know where and when I’ll be in Virginia – send me an email or subscribe to my newsletter).

In the meantime, I’m working on listening to my heart to see what comes next while I’m hiking the mountains, walking as many miles as my feet will allow around this awesome town and putting together some new passion projects that have been on the back burner for way too long!

Want a reading? They’re first come-first served on the schedule. And you can reserve yours here.

 

 

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